Hold up Adam !
All Mike is saying is most golfers really don’t know the rules of golf and most of the golfers playing in that group don’t know the rules so they think they are doing the right thing but they are actually violating the rules! Their for if you are in that same group but playing with others and abiding by the correct rules then is that not cheating by those who say place the ball on the green and say make par when if they do the correct thing they may have got bogies are even a double.
Just something to think about!!